Being Single

The Pro's -My Top Five Good Points.

1. I get to do what I want when I want without anyone ordering me to go shopping, attend family parties, be stuck watching Strictly Come Dancing or nagging!!!

2. My phone is not constantly ringing or beeping with calls and text messages asking me what I'm thinking

3. My wallet says it enjoys being single

4. I don't have to pretend to like her parents or wanna go for a drink with her brother

5. Nobody to complain about the job I do and always being away from home


The Con's - My Top Five Problems.

1. I love to Kiss and cuddle and I can't do either being single

2. Everywhere I go, I'm on my own, parties, nights out, holidays etc

3. My mum thinks I must be gay because I'm single at 28.

4. Being Single does not mean an endless stream of casual sex partners and one night stands....well not for me unfortunatly

5. Actually I think the top four covers it !!!!!

Christmas In......Miami

I arrived in Miami yesterday ( short 48 hour stop ). I left London in freezing temperatures and arrived into 78 degree sunshine. Its very nice and all that but it never feels like Christmas when I go anywhere warm.

However of course the beaches are full of very hot girls and this pilot is taking life easy for a few hours. However ignore all that rubbish that pilots and cabin crew are basically shagging our way around the world, its a myth, I wish it wasn't but there you go!!!

Screw It. Lets Do It!

OK, now first things first, I want to say thanks to girlwithaonetrackmind for telling me to go for it. I first read Abby's book about nine months ago and then started reading her online blog. Reading it from a male perspective I laughed and cried. I have been single for six years and I saw myself in some of those scenarios but from the other side of the table.

I cant promise that my posts will be anywhere near as good as Abby's but I will try my best.

I wont reveal my real name but I will tell you a bit about me. I am 28 years old and I live in London. I work as a commercial airline pilot ( First Officer ) for a major international airline. I am single as I said and I have no kids.

My job obviously takes me far and wide and I will often be posting from some far flung corners of the world. It won't all be about sex though, I often think of things that I would like to write down so hopefully this will be the place.

All comments and suggestions will be most welcome, I am new to this so assistance and help will be much appreciated.